A Prayer for a Son

General MacArthur's Prayer for a Son 

 Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak; and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat and humble and gentle in victory.

Build me a son whose wishes will not take the place of deeds; a son who will know Thee -- and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.

Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.

Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high, a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men, one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, and the meekness of true strength.

Then I, his father, will dare to whisper, "I have not lived in vain!"

 

What do you think of this prayer?  At first, it is deeply moving and it reminds us that what we strive for as people may not be attainable. The prayer lists ideals by which to grow toward as people--but can we ever say we have reached them? 

Then I turned the prayer around.  I saw it as a prayer that God has for each of us.  These are qualities, virtues in fact, that God graces us with...and there are at times reachable as life stretches us beyond where we can possibly get on our own. 

What I do know is in the Christian faith, the prayer which God gives us was sealed by his Son's life.  In Jesus, we see what life is intended to be and find the grace to follow him.