The most difficult thing in the world

Do all the good you can. By all the means you can. 

In all the ways you can. In all the places you can. 

At all the times you can. To all the people you can. 

As long as ever you can.  

                                                                                     John Wesley

No matter what you make out of the Wesley quotation--it comes down this one point--Connect With People.  As long as we live detached, blind to those around us, nothing that Wesley calls us to do really matters.  The most radical call of Christ is to see each person as your neighbor -- and then to love that person as yourself.  Wesley's statement sounds daunting until we remember Christ telling us to see our neighbor as we would ourselves.  Then you can begin doing all you can for others because you carried enough to connect with them.